FRIENDSHIPS Friends. What a funny topic. To some people friends mean so much but to the others they are extremely overrated. Having a friend people say is an essential for survival and while I whole-heartedly agree with that the whole process of making friends seems utterly tiring. There are some people who have that natural charisma and personality who make friends as fast as lightning and I am one of those people. But has anyone taken the effort to notice that while these people make friends effortlessly all we are searching for is that one person on whom we can depend on in any situation. The word friend has taken on a very toxic meaning to me. Honestly I have made a ton of friends in my life but how many can I call the second I feel overwhelmed or anxious? The answer to that question is none. I feel jealous of the people who have that friend who they can call in the middle of the night just to talk because they arent able to fall asleep or whose friends family is just ...
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PEOPLE We all have people in our life to whom we look up to, admire and want to be. But sometimes these same people who meant the world to us become as insignificant as the stars far far away in the night sky. These people hurt us in ways unimaginable, might be physical but for the most part it is emotional. I wish these people would just pick up their bags and leave and get the hell out you know? And honestly what hurts the most is that these are the people who you would have done anything for and they are the ones who turn their back when you need it the most. I had a friend just like that. A best friend who I had relied on so undoubtedly never even imagining that something awful would ever come to pass. But after just one argument she turned her face the other side and refused to acknowledge how I was feeling. I understand that friendship is a 2-way road and it takes work and energy to build a lasting relationship but is that truly possible when you are the only one d...